Ok, this post might seem mundane or out rightly ridiculous to some, but these are wise words, pay heed. When do you actually fall in love? Is it the moment, you think in your head, that a girl is cute and you feel butterflies in your stomach, or is it when you cannot live without the countless hours over the phone with him/her? Is it when she accepts your proposal or perhaps, she rejects it? Up until a few days back, I had no idea, I just knew I was madly in love with her, but didn’t quite understand what love was. But the last couple of days with her, I think I am beginning to understand.
Love, for me is when the distinction between, me and her disappears, the line between girlfriend and boyfriend, disappears, it is when you feel as one, like team, you feel everything the other feels, her pains are yours, her sorrows yours, her happiness yours… It’s love when you would sacrifice anything in the world for her, without the need to think. It is when you realize that you will love her till the end of time, no matter what happens, even if she hurts you. You know in your heart, no matter what happens, you would always be a good person, because she would want you to be.
Okay, what started out as an idea to express love, seems to be a failure. I cannot explain love. I feel it, but to express it is beyond the scope of language or literature. It is the most wonderful feeling. It’s precious.